Behavior Therapy and Cognitive Behavior Therapy are types of treatment that are based firmly on research findings. These approaches aid people in achieving specific changes or goals.
Changes or goals might involve:
A way of acting: like smoking less or being more outgoing;
A way of feeling: like helping a person to be less scared, less depressed, or less anxious;
A way of thinking: like learning to problem-solve or get rid of self-defeating thoughts;
A way of dealing with physical or medical problems: like lessening back pain or helping a person stick to a doctor’s suggestions.
Behavior Therapists and Cognitive Behavior Therapists usually focus more on the current situation and its solution, rather than the past.
They concentrate on a person’s views and beliefs about their life, not on personality traits.
Behavior Therapists and Cognitive Behavior Therapists treat individuals, parents, children, couples, and families.
Replacing ways of living that do not work well with ways of living that work, and giving people more control over their lives, are common goals of behavior and cognitive behavior therapy.
HOW TO GET HELP:
If you are looking for help, either for yourself or someone else, you may be tempted to call someone who advertises in a local publication or who comes up from a search of the Internet.
You may, or may not, find a competent therapist in this manner.
It is wise to check on the credentials of a psychotherapist.
It is expected that competent therapists hold advanced academic degrees.
They should be listed as members of professional organizations, such as the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies or the American Psychological Association.
Of course, they should be licensed to practice in your state.
You can find competent specialists who are affiliated with local universities or mental health facilities or who are listed on the websites of professional organizations.
You may, of course, visit our website (www.abct.org) and click on "Find a CBT Therapist"
The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) is an interdisciplinary organization committed to the advancement of a scientific approach to the understanding and amelioration of problems of the human condition.
These aims are achieved through the investigation and application of behavioral, cognitive, and other evidence-based principles to assessment, prevention, and treatment.
What Is Complicated Grief?
Experiencing the death of a loved one is one of the most painful life
events. Grief is a normal reaction and includes a variety of psychological
and physiological symptoms that evolve over time. For example, it is natural
and expected to experience intense emotions immediately after
someone dies. The time and the associated symptomatic response after
the loss is referred to as acute grief, and includes strong yearning, longing,
and sadness. Thoughts and images of the person who has died are
also prominent during acute grief. There is often a sense of disbelief or
feelings of shock that a loved one is gone, a lessening of interest in activities
unrelated to the person who died, and feeling disconnected from
Most people adapt to even the most difficult loss and, as they make adjustments,
grief is integrated into their ongoing life. Thoughts about the
deceased person are accessible, but no longer dominate the bereaved person’s
mind, and the sadness and yearning are less frequent and eventually
less intense. Successful adaptation requires understanding the
finality and consequences of the loss, revising future hopes and plans,
and redefining the relationship with the deceased. Additionally, adaptation
to loss is helped by the experiences of positive emotion, self-compassion,
and the presence of social supports. Even with successful
adaptation, intensity of grief may wax and wane. For example, it might
spike in response to holidays, anniversaries, and milestones or other
losses and stressful events. As the grief and loss become integrated into a
person’s ongoing life and worldview, surges in grief become shorter and
While most people who lose a loved one instinctively adapt to the loss,
for a substantial minority of the bereaved the adaptation process is
slowed or halted by complications, and the symptoms of acute grief persist
indefinitely. We call this condition complicated grief. The complications
can include ruminations related to the circumstances or
consequences of the death, thoughts about what we might have done differently,
behaviors such as excessive avoidance, difficulties regulating
emotions, or developing problems, such as addictions, or exacerbating
existing conditions, like obsessions or feelings of isolation.
How Common Is Complicated Grief?
Complicated grief affects between 2% to 3% of the population worldwide
and 7% to 10% of bereaved people. It amounts to millions of people in the
U.S. alone. This condition is characterized by intense grief that lasts
longer than would be normally expected and that impairs daily functioning.
Complicated grief can follow the loss of any close relationship, especially
after the death of a romantic partner and among parents who have
lost a child.
How to Recognize Complicated Grief
As in acute grief, the hallmark of complicated grief is persistent, intense
yearning, longing, and sadness; these symptoms are usually accompanied
by insistent thoughts or images of the deceased and a sense of disbelief
or an inability to accept the painful reality of the person’s death.
Rumination is common and is often focused on angry or guilty thoughts
related to circumstances of the death. Avoidance of situations that serve
as reminders of the loss is also common, as is the tendency to constantly
reminisce about the deceased person or by trying to keep reminders close
by viewing, touching, or smelling their belongings. People with compli-
cated grief often feel shocked, stunned, or emotionally numb, and
they may become estranged from others because of the belief that
happiness is inextricably tied to the person who died. They may have
a diminished sense of self or discomfort with a changed social role
and are often confused by their seemingly endless grief. We generally
think of complicated grief after at least 6 months after the death and
sometimes longer if there are other social, cultural, or religious ties to
the person. Other names for this condition include Prolonged Grief
Disorder or Persistent Complex Bereavement Disorder.
How Complicated Grief Is Different From Depression
Complicated grief is different from depression and/or posttraumatic
stress disorder (PTSD). While they do co-occur in some cases, and all
might include symptoms of depressed mood, anxiety, preoccupying
thoughts or cognitive distortions, and avoidance, in complicated grief
these symptoms center specifically around the circumstances of the
loss. Ruminations or avoidance also relate directly to reminders of
the deceased. In depression, depressed mood is pervasive across contexts,
and preoccupying thoughts are focused on negative thoughts
about the self, others, or the world, while avoidance consists of general
social withdrawal, not avoidance of circumstances related to the
death or the deceased.
How Complicated Grief Is Different From
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder
In PTSD, anxiety is focused on the fear of recurrent danger, as opposed
to insecurity without the deceased as in complicated grief, and
intrusive or distorted thoughts relate to the traumatizing event, as
opposed to the deceased individual. Symptoms of anxiety and depression
can occur in complicated grief, and targeted treatment of the
complicated grief response will also reduce anxiety and depression.
What Are the Known Risk Factors for Developing
Risk factors include a history of mood or anxiety disorders, alcohol or
drug abuse, and multiple losses. Depression in persons who have
been caregivers during a loved one’s terminal illness and those who
had depression early in bereavement are more likely to develop complicated
grief later in bereavement. Personal factors such as these
may interact with characteristics of the relationship to the deceased
or with the circumstances, context, or consequences of the death to
increase the risk. Losing someone with whom one has had a close relationship
can be especially hard if the bereaved person had a difficult
upbringing or if there are unusually stressful consequences of the
death, inadequate social supports, serious conflicts with friends or
relatives, or major financial problems after the death.
Is There an Effective Treatment for Complicated Grief?
There are two approaches: one deals with complicated grief; the other
gives us strategies for accepting the loss and for restoring a sense of
the possibility of future happiness. A short-term approach called
complicated grief treatment (CGT) has been effective with 2 out of 3
people, and is more effective than other treatments for complicated
grief, including interpersonal therapy and antidepressant medication,
and is therefore the treatment of choice for complicated grief.
CGT seeks to identify and resolve complications of grief and to facilitate
adaptation to the loss. The treatment includes two key areas:
restoring effective functioning by generating enthusiasm and creating
plans for the future and helping patients find a new way to think
about the death that does not evoke intense feelings of anger, guilt, or
anxiety. Research suggests that interventions that include strategies
to reduce avoidance of thoughts about the death and avoidance of ac
tivities and places that are reminders of the loss are more effective
than those that do not. While CGT is the preferred method of treatment
because it is most effective, where CGT is not available, a reasonable
approach is an intervention that provides information about
adaptation to grief and includes both strategies to reduce avoidance
of reminders of the loss and strategies for helping with depression.
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